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Chapter
XIII
THE CROSS AND RELATIONSHIPS
CHRYSOSTOM SAYS that when
St. Lucian was asked C by his persecutors, "Of what country art thou?'
he replied, "I am a Christian,.
"What is your occupation?"
"I am a Christian.'
"Of what family?"
"I am a Christian."
To St. Lucian, Christ was
all, whether of country, of occupation, or of family.
How revolutionary is the
Cross! It revolutionizes all our relationships, toward God, toward
ourselves, toward others, toward all. Once the Cross lays hold upon
the Christian, he realizes how completely unhinged he has become from the
whole of this present world. The old life, the old world, the old
ways and relationships--all are past. "If any man be in Christ, he
is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become
new." Such is the conviction of the Cross that it "takes possession of
us; it overcomes and absorbs us, and tears us ruthlessly from everything
else; it becomes our sole object, and outside it nothing seems to touch
us; those who do not understand it are strangers to us; those who attack
it are our enemies; those who love and serve it with us are our
true, our only family."
"Suppose ye," warned the
Saviour, "that I am come to give peace on earth? I tell you, Nay;
but rather division: For from henceforth there shall be five in one house
divided, three against two, and two against three. The father shall
be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother
against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in
law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother
in law" (Luke 12:51-53). There is no divider like Christ. How
He pierces and divides asunder! He "came not to send peace, but a
sword" (Matt. 10:34). His Cross sunders the dearest of earthly ties;
violates our deepest attachments; gives us a heart of steel to ourselves
and the tenderest of hearts toward others.
The Corinthians were Paul's
children in the faith. In answer to their accusation that he did
not love them, the great apostle and father said: "Receive us; we have
wronged no man . . . for I have said before, that ye are in our hearts
to die and live with you" (II Cor. 7:2, 3). Note that Paul speaks
"contrary to nature." Affectionate parents naturally want their children
near by to live and die with them. But Paul has already said
to his Corinthian children: "Henceforth know we no man after the flesh."
Then he adds this reason: "One died for all, therefore all died" (11 Cor.
5:14, R.V.). Paul therefore holds his children in his heart not to live
and die with them, but "to die and live" with them. He knows them
as Christ's. And if Christ's, they have been crucified and raised
a new creation. Paul loves the Corinthians, but not "in the flesh."
He loves them through the Cross. He knows ,.no man after the flesh."
Few Christian parents are
governed by these simple implications of Calvary. We are thinking
of our good Christian homes. Parents are often so wrapped up in their
own children that they cannot bear to see them take the way of the Cross.
They shield them from the path of suffering. Christian young people
are often eager to go to all lengths for God and follow Christ to the ends
of the earth, but the parents refuse to take the way of the Cross, either
for themselves or for their children. "No man ever yet hated his
own flesh." But it is the first law of discipleship, said Jesus, that "if
any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and
children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot
be my disciple" (Luke 14:26). Blood runs thick. Christian parents
who have gone to great lengths in consecration and who seem otherwise to
be sacrificial and devoted followers of Christ, break down at this point.
Their fleshly sentiments make them, perhaps unconsciously, "the enemies
of the cross of Christ." The Cross begins to lay hold of son or daughter
and forthwith mother cries out: Be it far from thee, this shall never be
unto thee--Pity thyself, spare thyself, come down from the cross and save
thyself and us. Happy the young person who so senses the serpent's
subtle and feigned love in that dreadful hour that he can say: "Get thee
behind me, Satan: thou art a stumbling-block unto me: for thou mindest
not the things of God but the things of men" (Matt. 16:23, R.V.). |
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